Considering successful couples you know, what do you think are the most important behaviors that makes them so?

Asked by Shmaya David

Shmaya, When 2 individuals come together into a bond, there is certainly love, mutual respect and a trust factor which binds them. At the same time, each individual is like a unique shining gem, having their own specific characteristics, likes and dislikes, priorities, et al. As we say, "Opposite poles attract" and sometimes we find these uniqueness are more at times. They may share some of their interests, no doubt. Yet, if couples have to succeed, they definitely share a beautiful friendship, which makes them "give and take" without thinking "what is in it for me?". They provide mental and moral support to each other by respecting and ensuring they give a "space" for each other.

It is very important for every person to understand the needs of an individual since they pass through a lot of emotions - be it happy, sad, anger, frustration, tensed et al. I think even above love, this trust, mutual understanding and friendship makes the relationship successful.

Regards,
Sujatha”